REMPIT!

salam

semalam tertengok rancangan 999 kat tv3. biasanya tak minat sgt tgk rancangan 999 ni. bukan apa, terlalu 'murah' la dari segi kualiti siasatan. kononnya siasatan la tapi, sumer dok cari jalan mudah. tak abis2 pasal seks. tiap2 kali rancangan 999, mesti pasal seks. every week mesti ada stori pasal polis pegi serbu rumah2 pelacuran.....emmm not that its not good, tetapi i strongly believe that malaysia ni ada banyak sangat lagi masalah2 sosial lain yg perlu diberikan perhatian.




mentang2 la sex ni laku, so wartawan pun cari jalan mudah. citer je pasal seks, of course rating penonton akan naik. tapi, what about kualiti siasatan, kualiti kewartawanan itu sendiri. kalau citer pasal serbu rumah2 pelacuran ni, apa la yg nak difikirkan sangat. ikut je polis and bawak kamera satu. ha dapat la gambar2 perempuan separuh bogel dok tutup muka lepas malu kena tangkap. so cheap!

anyway, i am not going to talk about sex. yg tu dah malas nak cakap, rancangan 999 ni dah jadi mcm suratkhabar harian metro gak. cari jalan mudah. very low quality of journalism, taking the malaysians for granted. apa yg nak dibicarakan kali ini adalah tentang mat rempit. the second part of yesterday's 999 was on masalah mat rempit di terengganu. what triggers me to write about this is that i am puzzled why we still have not resolved this issue?



i mean terang2 kita tau yg masalah rempit ni dah jadi semakin serius and that rempit membawa kita kepada pelbagai masalah sosial yg lain seperti seks bebas, dadah, arak, rokok, ragut, penganggguran, gangsterism, jenayah dan sebagainya. so kita nak tunggu apa ye utk dapat kan solution to this issue. takkan kita terus nak wait and see? what the f***. nak tunggu apa? kucing bertanduk ka?

masalah rempit ni dah terlalu lama sangat berlaku dalam negara kita ni. masalah rempit ini bukan sahaja berlaku di kalangan belia yang tinggal di bandar malah juga ke atas belia yang tinggal di desa. in fact, i think it is even more serious for those yg tinggal di luar bandar. so, siapa yang harus dipersalahkan dalam hal ini. adakah pihak penguatkuasa? adakah ibubapa patut dipersalahkan? adakah remaja itu sendiri patut dipersalahkan? adakah pihak kerajaan yang patut dipersalahkan?




tapi yang sedihnya tu, dalam kita cuba untuk membendung masalah rempit ni, kita juga tanpa kita sedar, mengagumkan mat2 rempit ini melalui filem2 yg kita persembahkan. so far, dah banyak movie yg menggambarkan mat2 rempit ni mcm gila2 remaja (1984), Ali Setan (1985), Litar Kasih (1996), KL Menjerit (2002) dan REMP-IT (2006) dan yang terbaru is Adnan Sempit (2010). Oleh kerana mereka ini terlalu diagungkan dan dipromosikan melalui media, maka budaya REMPIT ini dah menjadi satu kebanggaan bagi golongan belia kita.

entah la....malaysia ni selalu mcm ni. terlalu lemah, terlalu takut nak buat keputusan, terlalu banyak sangat diplomasi. kalau terang2 benda tu dah salah, nak tunggu apa lagi. buat je la undang2 yg very clear utk totally hapuskan masalah rempit ni. bagi polis hak utk tangkap mat2 rempit ni. boleh tembak ke, ala bukan la tembak dengan peluru betul tu. tapi bagi diorang jatuh masa merempit tu. biar la diorang accident pun pedulik apa. motor2 diorang tu kasi bakar. nama2 diorang bagi kuar kat newspaper, termasuk mak bapak diorang pun sama gak, kalau anak2 yg di bawah umur 18 tahun ke, ha mak bapak diorang pun sama gak kena saman and kena masuk court, and nama and muka kuar paper. tak perlu lagi nak berbincang, tak perlu nak ada forum2 or nak berdiskusi. treat masalah rempit ni as a jenayah and a crime. no tolak ansur!



there is one thing i learn recently, and the weird part is that i learn it from GLEE. there was one episode, the evil Sue Sylvester cakap, dengan golongan remaja, kita gunakan kekerasan sebab golongan remaja ni will only respond to that. jgn sesekali berlembut dengan golongan remaja, becoz they will take advantage. from us. they see that as a weakness. the bottom line is, dengan remaja, kita bagi arahan. NO DISCUSSION! NO DIPLOMACY! seriously, i think she is right. we are being too nice sampai orang pijak kepala kita. so masalah rempit yg dah terlalu lama ni tolonglah do something concrete.

ok la ....thats it for now i think. nak cakap pasal masalah rempit ni pun rasanya berjam2 takkan abis. enuf talking. enuf diplomacy. its time for action.

til next time, see ya.

Dr. Rozmey = Syok Sendiri

salam

kali ni nak cakap pasal Dr. Rozmey....sape tu? ala takkan tak kenal kot. ari2 dok promote diri sendiri tu. i believe ramai dah tau or terpaksa tau since ari2 kuar kat radio, yang this Dr. Rozmey dah buat movie bertajuk 2 Alam. kalau nak ikut seperti yang digembur2 kan, movie 2 Alam dia ni dijadualkan kuar kat panggung on 27 mei 2010. tapi ari ni dah 6 june ye, still takde apa pun. iklan bukan main kat radio tu ha ari2 sampai sakit telinga dengar. tapi mana movie nye?

well, actually to be honest, mula2 tu rasa mcm curious jugak nak tau citer apa ni. tapi now rasa mcm meluat pun ada. muak dok dengar kat radio and media elektronik / cetak pasal dr. rozmey and movie 2 alam dia ni. sebuk la dok citer yg movie dia bagus la, movie dia lain dari yg lain la, org lain tak pandai buat movie la, 2 alam dia ni fenomena baru la eiiiii nak muntah. baru 1st time buat movie tapi berlagak mcm dah produce 100 movies. aku rasa steven spielberg pun tak cakap mcm dia ni.

so confirm la, aku mmg takkan pi tgk movie 2 alam ni. well kalau kuar la kan. sebab aku dengar mcm ada masalah je nak kuar kat panggung. tak lepas dari Lembaga Penapisan Filem negara ke apa ntah. well kata nya dia tak tertakluk kepada wajib tayang since dia tak guna duit finas. something like that la. so bila movie dia nak kuar tu terpulang pada panggung, dia diskus sendiri mcm tu la. emmmmm......dengar2 poster movie 2 alam ni pun ciplak dari movie lain, ha caner tu?

and jangan tak tau. dia target 12 juta yeeee.....ha amik kau. so far, movie yg paling tinggi kutipan is adnan sempit with rm7 juta. si dr. rozmey ni target is rm12 juta. hebat tak? kata la average harga tiket wayang is rm10, so kalau rm12 juta tu kira 1.2 juta org akan pi tgk wayang citer dia ni. ha amik ko. berangan tak? tak tau la aku dia ni....nak kata tak cerdik, doktor pakar sakit puan pulak. tapi bila bercakap tu mcm tak cerdik pun ada. whatever it is, style bisnes dia mmg over la. dia promote movie dia sama mcm dia dok promote produk slim jus mate dia tu. OVER!

jangan tak tau, ari tu dia kuar kat radio sinar dok citer pasal konsert yg dia nak buat kat alor setar kot nak promosi movie 2 alam dia ni. and target sampai 120,000 org datang tgk konsert dia boleh tak? and yg bestnye konsert tu tak jadi, dibatalkan pasal katanya polis tak bagi permit. and dia ni yg dgn confidentnya cakap yg polis takot ramai sgt org datang, polis tak dapat nak provide security, so terpaksa la batal konsert. giler tak? syok sendiri betul.....

to me, promosi iklan sumer tu mmg la penting. it is marketing. lagi byk u promote, lagi byk exposure tentang produk u tu, of course org akan jadi curious untuk beli. tetapi bila dah over exposed, people will get menyampah. as for me, bukan tahap menyampah lagi dah. kalau boleh nak ban movie ni dengan dr. rozmey ni sendiri. buat sakit mata je. kot lawa takpe, ni muka sememeh jer plus with that rambut yg mcm mop tu aiyoooo......

eh letih la cakap pasal dia ni. aku rasa dia ni suka kot org cakap pasal dia. syok sendiri tahap tinggi gila. mmg dah takleh ubat kot. in fact, i might be doing him a favour with this entry on him huhu....gila glamer sangat2. ada mental problem kot....lantak ko la. asal ko bahagia. anyway, gud luck la to sapa2 yg nak tgk movie 2 alam dia ni. as for me, no tengkiu.

c ya....

Harian Metro = majalah lucah

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RAHSIA ADIK MANJA: Cuma RM5 satu kepala - bayar RM5 atau beri syabu. Itu syarat keji tiga remaja panas yang dikesan sanggup membiarkan tubuh dijamah lelaki asalkan apa yang dihajati dapat dipenuhi....

Bayi jadi sasaran - seorang wanita yang dituduh mencuri telefon mengamuk dengan mencampak bayinya sebelum memijak kanak-kanak itu.....

Bukan sengaja - "Saya mohon maaf di atas keterlanjuran saya berpakaian pada malam itu", kata pelakon jelita Rozita Che Wan....

Ini adalah antara tajuk berita2 utama dalam Harian Metro pada hari ini, Ahad 30 Mei 2010. In case you haven't noticed, all the headlines in Harian Metro mesti berkaitan dengan samada seks, artis2 terlampau ataupun cerita2 sensasi.




Korang perasan tak yang harga suratkhabar Harian Metro ni dah naik gila babi. Kalau tak silap dulu masa Harian Metro mula2 keluar, harganya was RM1 je. But now harga senaskah Harian Metro is RM1.80 okay...it is very expensive and wayyyy more expensive than Berita Harian, Utusan, NST or TheStar.

I mean kenapa harga Harian Metro ni jadi mahal sgt? Macam mana harga Harian Metro ni naik mcm ni sekali? Jawapan nye senang jer. Sebab orang Malaysia ni (melayu la mostly pasal rasanya org melayu yg baca Metro) dah ketagih seks. Harian Metro ni pulak hari2 mesti tajuk utama dia pasal seks. And of course for harga RM1.80, pastu boleh baca pasal seks, of course la org beli. Macam beli novel lucah la lebih kurang.



Kalau nak diikutkan dari segi kualiti journalism, rasanya memang mcm langit dengan bumi la kalau nak bandingkan Harian Metro dengan NST or TheStar. Kalau beli NST tu, boleh baca mcm2 jenis penulisan berkualiti....just name it, u have academic issues, world issues, local issues, economic issues as well as on entertainment. Baru la bila bayar tu rasa mcm worth it.

Actually in a weird kinda way, Harian Metro is promoting sex to the public. U can easily sell ur paper because sex is like a drug. People get addicted - they always want more. However, how about moral? Is it morally ok to do this? What about the newspaper's social responsibility? Of course the paper wants to sell more and more in order to get untung but then don't u think promoting sex openly to the public is morally and ethically wrong?




Personally I feel that the authorities need to have a look at Harian Metro. They should not be allowed to promote sex openly mcm ni - well of course we can always argue that they are not. That what they are doing is just purely reporting on moral issues in Malaysia but I am certain that in a strange way, Harian Metro is promoting sex. It seems like mcm takde control plak newspapers boleh buat sesuka hati.....

Anyway, that is my thought of the day....dah lama gak tak update since laptop rosak huhu...okie dokie....till next time...

c ya....

sexual depression...

salam

this is my second entry on this issue. and yes this issue is something i take seriously and will try to explain as much as i could. just heard this morning over the radio that a baby was found floating in Sg Klang. well, just one line of that unfortunate baby was mentioned in the news. how life has become so cheap....too sad.

A study was carried out by the Swinburne University of Technology in Melbourne, Australia on people who visit online sex sites discover that they have "alarmingly high" rates of depression, anxiety and stress. More than 27 percent of them were moderate to severely depressed on the standard scales. Another 30 percent had high levels of anxiety and 35 per cent were moderately to severely stressed. Apparently the more they engaged in online sexual activity, the higher their level of depression and anxiety was.

ha tak depressed macam mana nyer....yer la dok tgk sex sana sini tapi nak buat tak dapat. it is exactly the situation kat malaysia ni ha. takyah bukak tv or masuk internet pun, beli je newspaper especially kosmo atau harian metro tu. tak abis2 pasal seks....nak jual paper punya pasal, everyday punya headline tajuk kat cover depan tu mesti pasal seks. then kat tv lak ada rancangan polis tu 999, tak abis2 pasal pelacuran. ye la tu yg org suka tgk, ha tu la diorang dok tayang ulang2.

i totally understand why people are depressed sexually in malaysia. ye la nak buat, tak dapat, tak boleh. larangan agama la, undang2, budaya etc. tapi ari2 kat mana2 dok kena suap ngan seks. lama2 of course la orang jadi depressed. tengok je tapi tak dapat buat. letih la kan. last2 rogol anak, rogol cucu, sex luar nikah, buang bayi, etc....

i mean u have to choose la nak apa. kalau betul2 taknak society kita ni jadi sexually liberal, then u have to control our access to sex ni. kena betul2 censor the internet, the media tv newspapers magazine etc. jgn bagi org senang2 nak dapat akses kepada sex content. bila org tak dapat nak akses kepada benda2 seks ni, then kepala otak diorang takde la pikir nak buat seks. tapi kalau betul nak jadi liberal and open, ha then kena la educate the people the right ways to do thing, kena la ajar sex education kat teenagers tu, so takde la diorang nak mengandung anak luar nikah bagai....

i think malaysia ni ada dilema la. sexual dilemma.....nak jadi open, nak jadi liberal, nak jadi negara maju tapi at the same time nak preserve our traditional ways of life, our religion, our values of the society. nak buat dua2 tu at the same time. tapi masalahnya kena la cari the right balance because you cannot have both. mana boleh nak jadi liberal tapi at the same time nak jaga agama n budaya.

rasa macam nak buat appointment dgn menteri shahrizat jalil je. nak bagi briefing sket kat kementerian pembangunan wanita dan masyarakat tu. tapi nak ke dia layan aku huhu. emmm takpe la aku antar dia emel je la share my thoughts, that is the best i could do. ok la enuf of this subject matter. macam dah panjang sgt plak rasa sampai dua entry. ok til next time.

c ya.

malaysians are sexually depressed!

salam

ada dua cerita kat paper ari ni yg membuatkan kepala otak ni berpikir.....apa la nak jadi ngan malaysia ni. dua berita tersebut adalah:

1. seorang penoreh getah dihukum penjara 13 tahun kerana bersalah meliwat anaknya yg ketika itu baru berumur 9 tahun.

2. seorang gadis sekolah menengah berumur 16 tahun melahirkan anak luar nikah di dalam tandas di sebuah klinik di terengganu.

citer2 pasal seks kat malaysia ni mcm dah jadi satu norm pulak, benda biasa....and i think that is very worrying. we should really sit down and study this thing, why this things like rogol, mengandung luar nikah, seks rambang, buang bayi, lesbian, gay, bapa rogol anak, datuk rogol cucu, ehh macam2 lagi la....

kita kena seriously kaji benda ni. kenapa benda ni berlaku, kenapa benda ni semakin menjadi serius. apa patut kita buat to stop this....we can't let this continue ruining our society. imagine apa akan jadi pada mereka semua ni. yg kena rogol akan trauma the whole life, yg merogol pulak kena penjara sah2 la makin rosak berkawan ngan segala bentuk penjenayah dalam tu, yg mengandung anak luar nikah pula kena buang family, etc etc etc....segala bentuk masalah sosial la akan terus meningkat......

to me, what is happening in our country can be called as "sexual depression". it refers to a situation bila seseorang tu tak dapat seks because of certain reasons and they get depressed. in the end, they will break the law and end up doing stupid things like rogol anak sendiri.

ye la kat malaysia ni seks adalah mudah sgt untuk dapat. masuk je internet tu ha, cari jer macam2 ada. yg melayu, yg omputih, sumer ada. kat televisyen kita pun sama gak, dok tayang pompuan2 seksi, scene bercinta bercium bagai mcm dah takde censor, handphone pulak la ni dah canggih2. macam2 video and gambar seks org dok mms and kongsi. so u see, sex is so easy to find.

tetapi at the same time, kita ni dilarang oleh agama, oleh budaya, oleh undang2 untuk buat sesuka ati. nak sex, well u have to get married. sex luar nikah sebelum kawin tu sah2 la tak boleh. not acceptable in our society, or even allowed by the religion. gay, lesbian no no no out of question.

tapi tak pelik ke. makin kita larang, makin banyak dan makin berleluasa pulak benda2 ni berlaku. something must be wrong somewhere. this is what i mean by "sexual depression". our society is sexually depressed. sex is put upon their face 24/7, it's easily available and accessible in malaysia. but you can only see, but you cannot take part. of course la people will get depressed. tengok je tapi tak dapat. of course la lambat laun they will be tempted. and we end up with all these problems i.e. rogol, sex luar nikah, etc....

aku nak sambung lagi pasal benda ni tapi mata dah ngantuk. i will try to say more about this in my next entry. ok la til next time.

c ya.

susah ke nak minta maaf?

salam

i am very frustated with the police on this issue of adik Aminulrasyid. why is it so difficult for the police to say sorry. the mother of the boy just lost a son for god's sake. minta maaf la, be humble sket. show a little bit of sympathy to the family....

of course la this incident has given bad publicity to the police and that the public is angry. yes the public has all the reasons to be angry. you serve the public, when something goes wrong, u expect us to just keep quiet ker.....of course la kita marah....

tetapi polis tak perlu la jadi defensive sgt. polis ni mcm takde image consultant la pulak. you are now in the middle of a very sensitive issue involving the public. so, be careful la with statements yg u buat. unfortunately, we keep on seeing on television the responses from the police, especially from the KPN being so defensive dok marah2.....apa da.....takde humility langsung....

tak kesah la sapa salah tapi mak budak tu baru ilang anak dia, tak reti2 ker. the least u could do is to extend ur condolences and sympathy. payah benor ke??? give up la....

c ya.

nafkah anak-anak ibu bapa yg bercerai.....

salam

apabila berkahwin, semuanya indah semuanya seronok. kalau tak takkan la sampai digelar raja sehari dan diraikan dalam majlis perkahwinan yang gilang gemilang. awal-awal di dalam kehidupan berumahtangga, boleh kata ibarat honeymoon hari-hari. kalau sehari tak jumpa macam setahun lamanya merindu. most of the time dok dalam bilik tidur, kalau boleh tak nak kuar2, taknak pi kerja. ha itulah indahnya alam perkahwinan....well, allow me to correct, bukan alam perkahwinan tapi pada awal-awal perkahwinan yer....

masa mula2 kahwin biasa la, sumer nyer indah kan....normal la tu...abis je bulan madu and masuk bulan ke-5, dah rasa lain macam. asyik nak bergaduh jer....ada jer benda yang tak kena. ha time tu baru la masing2 'tunjuk belang'....orang kata "show their true colours". most people say that the first two years of the marriage is the most difficult period. kata orang lar....tak tau la betul ke tak. sebab time tu la masing2 baru nak kenal the real hati budi org yg kita kawin tu. ye la time bercinta memang la sumer nyer manis. nampak yg elok2 jer. kentut pun wangi agaknye. ha bila dah kawin, kena dok serumah makan tido sekali, ha baru ko tau indah ke tak. baru la tau "isk tido berdengkur rupanya"..."isk tak reti masak rupanya"....ha caner tu.....




anyway, panjang pulak introduction ni. sebenarnya nak cakap pasal perceraian and more precisely pasal nasib and nafkah anak-anak kepada ibubapa yg bercerai ni. well kalau dah tak serasi and dah cuba sedaya upaya utk mempertahankan perkahwinan, kalau tak ok jugak nak buat caner kan. nak paksa2 pun takleh gak. dah tak suka and dah tak sayang, macam mana nak dok serumah lagi. most people say kena berkorban utk anak2, well it's easy to say lar...cakap memang senang. kalau dah tak suka and in fact worse kalau dah benci, mcm mana nak dok serumah and apatah lagi kalau kena tido sekatil, isk isk i have to say it is not easy ok. silap2 boleh jadi gila kot....

so kalau dah tak boleh nak hidup bersama tu, berpisah la cara baik. anggap la jodoh tak panjang. tak perlu la nak gaduh2 ke apa. tambah plak kalau ada anak-anak bersama, of course akan kena berjumpa lagi dan berhubung demi anak2 pasal mcm2 benda....hal sekolah la, hal kesihatan, hal perkahwinan, hal masa depan anak2 dan mcm2 lar......hubungan suami isteri tu mmg la boleh putus kan, tapi hubungan anak-anak dengan mak dan ayah tak akan putus. so untuk memudahkan urusan2 begini la, ibu bapa yang bercerai perlu bersikap professional. tak perlu ada rasa dendam ke apa, ataupun hasad dengki ke....dah takde jodoh kan nak buat mcm mana.....yg penting now is masa depan anak-anak tu....pasal tempat tinggal diorang, persekolahan, kebajikan, kesihatan.... isk isk macam2 lagi la....

seringkali kita dengar rungutan bekas2 isteri yang telah diceraikan tentang perihal bapa yang tidak memberi nafkah kepada anak-anak.....most of the times, ibu yang akan menjaga anak2 selepas bercerai. bapa diarahkan oleh Mahkamah Syariah untuk memberi nafkah belanja untuk anak2. tapi malangnya kes bapa yang tidak memberi nafkah untuk anak2 mmg sgt banyak. mcm dah jadi lumrah pulak si ibu yg akan bersusah payah mencari duit untuk membesarkan anak2 sedangkan bapa tak ambil peduli and even worse kawin lain, dapat anak lain dan tak ambil tahu langsung perihal kebajikan anak2 dengan isteri lama.

kita tahu bahawa adalah menjadi satu kewajipan kepada si ayah untuk memberi nafkah kepada anak2. refer la kepada mana2 undang2 syariah sekalipun, refer la kepada ayat al-quran sekalipun, akan tetap menyatakan bahawa seorang bapa wajib memberi nafkah kepada anak2 nya. seksyen 73 enakmen undang2 keluarga islam (negeri selangor) memperuntukan bahawa adalah menjadi kewajipan seorang lelaki menanggung nafkah anaknya, samada anak itu dibawah jagaannya atau dalam jagaan seseorang yang lain dengan mengadakan bagi mereka tempat tinggal, pakaian, makanan, perubatan dan pelajaran yang munasabah memandang kepada kemampuan dan taraf kehidupannya.



yang menjadi persoalan di sini ialah kenapa banyak sgt kes2 bapa yang tidak ambil peduli ttg nafkah anak2....kita kata ada undang2 itu ini tentang hal ini, tapi kenapa bapa2 yg tak bayar nafkah anak2 ni boleh buat sesuka hati je....boleh terlepas begitu sahaja....kalau betul ada undang2, maknanya orang yg tidak respect undang2 ni sepatutnya boleh diambil tindakan. tapi hakikatnya mmg terlalu ramai ibu tunggal di luar sana yang membesarkan anak2 sendiri tanpa nafkah dan bantuan dari bekas suami. kenapa benda ni boleh berlaku. kenapa kita tidak tegas tentang perkara ini. minta si bapa bagi nafkah kat anak2 ni dah macam kena minta sedekah la pulak....padahal mmg tanggungjawab dia...

i mean we cannot take this issue for granted because the implication is very big to the society. and yg menjadi mangsanya ialah ibu2 tunggal dan anak2 pasangan bercerai. we are actually giving the green light for men to do whatever they like because the law is not there to punish them if they do wrong. they can go on and pretend they are not responsible for their children and the law will not do anything against them. if they say they don't have money utk bayar nafkah anak2, then lepas mcm tu jer.....frankly speaking this is just ridiculous. sepatutnya pihak berkuasa kena lebih tegas dan berlaku adil kepada semua pihak. bapa2 tak boleh bebas tak bayar nafkah anak2 selepas bercerai. nak besarkan anak2 memerlukan belanja yang besar....kesian kepada ibu2 tunggal yg terpaksa membesarkan anak2 sendiri dan kesian juga kepada nasib anak2 yang hak mereka tidak dibela ini.

tapi macam mana kita nak make sure supaya bapa2 tidak lari daripada tanggungjawab mereka memberi nafkah ni. bagi nafkah untuk membesarkan anak2 ni sepatutnya la satu benda yang normal, yg tak perlu nak paksa2. golongan bapa sepatutnya kena ada rasa tanggungjawab untuk memberi nafkah kepada anak2....mcm pelik la pulak nak kena paksa2. pandai buat anak, pandai la jaga dan besarkan ye.....sepatutnya kita kena lebih tegas dalam hal ini. kalau perlu tindakan undang2 or perlu masukkan diorang ni dalam penjara, well i say go ahead. takpun ketatkan syarat untuk diorang ni kawin lain. ye la, kawin lain mampu pulak, bayar nafkah anak takde duit pulak, mcm mana tu....biar kita bagi pengajaran kepada golongan bapa2 yg tidak bertanggungjawab di luar sana tu supaya jangan buat sesuka hati. because we are being too kind sebab tu la hal ini semakin berleluasa dan bapa2 yg tidak bertanggungjawab ni boleh buat sesuka hati.

kalau nak ikutkan, ada banyak benda nak cakap pasal undang-undang syariah ni. mmg la satu fakta yg tidak dapat dinafikan.....golongan wanita sering teraniaya dan tidak terbela. too sad. the syariah law is too bias towards men. sering menyebelahi lelaki. well, its not a surprise since yg membuat undang2 syariah ni pun golongan lelaki jugak....so no wonder la kan. but i think things are getting better now. we are seeing improvement in syariah laws towards taking into account the welfare of the wives and children....tapi tak semua negeri la....yg tgk ada perubahan kepada membela nasib wanita adalah undang2 syariah di negeri selangor....di kebanyakan negeri lain masih lagi di takut lama....entah bila akan berubah pun tak tau la....

so itu lah isu hari ini....nafkah anak2 kepada ibu bapa yg bercerai....kalau nak ikut syariah law mmg la mcm nothing much could be done....i wonder samada org islam boleh ikut undang2 civil. emmm.....it is my wish that the authorities be more strict on this issue...i pray for that to happen. ok la...that is all for this time...

c ya....

Pesara tentera to become guru disiplin...

Salam

I have had this thought in my head for a very long time. This is concerning the social illness affecting the youth in our country. Problems such as lepak, gangsterisme, ponteng, sex rambang, and all sorts of diseases have made me afraid about the future of our society. We are talking about teenagers who are supposed to be our hope for the future, to lead the country. But with all these challenges, seriously I have doubts and I think I have all the reasons to have doubts.

I did mention pasal isu masalah disiplin remaja ni a few days ago, especially on the buang bayi issue. Honestly, with all the challenges of today spurred by the technology i.e. internet, handphones, televisyen; i have to wonder what can be done to save our children. This rise of problems relating to youth can be explained by the lack of discipline of teenagers. Let's be honest, things have changed a lot, it was not like before where teachers had the privilege to 'rotan' the students in order to discipline them. Now, try to do that, and teachers will end up in courts. Nowadays parents have become too complacent with their children to the point of spoiling them.




So, I had this idea about Guru Disiplin at Sekolah Menengah to be given more role and responsibility to educate and discipline our teenagers. Why Sekolah Menengah and not Sekolah Rendah, it is just that during this Sekolah Menengah age that teenagers are more vulnerable, fragile and are exposed to all sorts of temptations. However, it seems that schools are lacking in male teachers. Female teachers by far outnumber the male teachers. And there was this issue about male teachers are mostly 'lelaki lembut'. So forget about being Guru Disiplin. This brings me to this idea to bring Retired Military into Sekolah Menengah as Guru Disiplin.

I have not done my research yet on this, but kalau tak silap, military men are retiring from the army after 13 years of service, which means they would be in their late 30s. The army has spent a huge amount of money to train the military about discipline, i think it would be a waste not to use this talent. Why don't we bring them into schools and educate our teenagers, about moral and akhlak especially discipline. By doing this, we could also solve the problems of high unemployment among the retired armies.

This issue needs further study but the issue at hand is very crucial and serious. If we do not act now, I do not know what will happen to our teenagers. I have already written to PM, TPM, Minister of Education, Minister of Defence, Minister of Interior as well as to KSN. I hope this idea of bringing Retired Military into Sekolah Menengah as Guru Disiplin can be taken seriously.

C ya.

sex education......it's long overdue!!!

salam

baru sat ni baca one article kat thestar online pasal "creating awareness on sex"....ada one talk on sex awareness campaign was held by HELP communications students.....i would like to applaud such activity....in fact, i would like to call for more awareness campaigns on sex....i think this is very important especially in light of all the 'babies dumping' cases that have 'strangely' become the norm in our society....




let's face it....we do not want to talk about sex because we feel that the issue is taboo and we should not talk about it openly....but whether we like it or not, people are having sex out there, in particular the teenagers who don't really understand sex, what is right or wrong.... so following their wild hormones and influenced by all the sex stuffs freely available on the internet, they will do sex at their own risk and way....kalau tak percaya, pegi la buat poll kat luar tu tgk baper ramai teenagers yg masih lagi virgin....don't get surprise i can bet u that our teenagers dah sexually active once they reach 15 years old....

so why don't we at least tell them what is right and wrong when it comes to sex....we should explain about safe sex, about pregnancy, about HIV, about STD, etc etc etc.... and of course, in doing this, we should also include the religious views especially about sex outside marriage and sex abstinence......

im not sure about other countries tapi rasa mcm jarang dengar pasal buang2 bayi ni kat negara lain....tapi kan org2 yg buang baby ni tak rasa apa2 ke ek....tak kesian ker....kalau taknak baby, ha pakai la kondom ker makan pil ker apa....tak pun gugurkan jer ker...jgn la sampai jadi baby.....takpun jgn main langsung, tunggu kawin dulu....tak takot dosa ker isk.... baby ni tanggungjawab, bukan boleh nak buang2 mcm tu jer.... i am so worried that this buang baby thing is becoming an accepted thing in our country.....gosh that is scary!

anyway, i would like to quote Mr. Franz Joseph von Hofter, lecturer from HELP institute who said "Repressed sexuality tends to build up and manifests as social ills in society..."....i totally second this.....our society in particular the teenagers are being served and exposed to all kind of sex contents over the television, internet and so on......of course they will get influenced and horny and would want to try.....but at the same time, our religion and society forbid sex before marriage, so there is thing confusion and dilemma....we see sex everywhere, but we cannot do it....so how weird is that?.....

i mean seriously the authorities have got to do something about this....kalau betul2 taknak org buat sex, then stop making sex easily accessible to the public....kalau tak kesah org buat sex, then do it correctly, bagi explanation, sex education and so on....so taklah sampai org dok buang2 anak sana sini....its sickening.....its wrong and its embarassing to the outside world....

pelik kan isn't it....macam ada tak org rule the country pun tak tau., mcm jadi ntah apa2....org2 yg sepatutnya rule the country sebuk nak berpolitik tak abis2....society jadi ntah apa2....yg jadi mangsa sapa lagi kalau bukan the society, the same teenagers yg sepatutnya menjadi the future leaders of the country. aiyoooo pening pening.....ok la malas nak pikir tapi tolong la cepat2kan sikit find solutions to this problem kay....dah terlalu serius.....

ok la jumpe lagi next time....c ya....